Here are the six priorities most
women will consider when checking out a guy they intends to say yes I do to. If
you want your woman to consider you and truly say ‘yes, I love you’ will take
the following very seriously.
HE SHOULD BE THE CALLING TYPE
I think am the calling type. I
like to send romantic messages but will still love to hear her voice and her
laughter or anger. I might not stay long on the phone because am the type that
like to look into faces as I speak. However, I know how important it is to
ladies to hear the voice of the man they fancy. Just call often and not bore
them, it will rewire the whole relationship.
Sounds simple enough, but in an
age where we text, FaceBook, tweet, BBM and do everything but pick up a phone
and call, a man making an effort to reach out to talk to a woman speaks
volumes. Most women will conclude you
really care when you can call just to check how she is doing or to say one or
two things.
HE SHOULD BE THE LISTENING TYPE
Do you consider yourself the type
that can listen? For most men listening to a woman, is a boring chore. A lot of
people don’t realize it, but listening is an art form. Half of the time when
people are talking we’re not listening to the other person we’re only waiting
to interject with our own response. Yeah, most men can’t stand the unimportant
talks of women. We may pretend that we are listening so as not to offend her
but we are bored to death.
Little advice friend, try and
really listen to the small talks she is offloading on you, it means alot to
her. What we guys call small unnecessary talks, is what she calls important
matter, so be wise, listen to her small talk so she can be free enough to give
you her wise and sincere talks.
HE SHOULD BE THE ‘ALWAYS AROUND’ TYPE
Have you noticed how your woman
wants to drag you along wherever she goes? Seriously, if you have a woman like
that, it means she really loves you. Yeah she wants others to see both of you
together; she is just showing you off. If you allow yourself to be dragged
along in a nice way, she will be glued to you. I mean she will love you.
Some men that appreciate how their
women look might willingly take her shopping and bear all the suffocating selection
drama. They might even chime in on her outfit and enjoy the mini-modelling show
of having her try on different outfits for his approval. But please do it for
her, it is her joy and she will love you for it.
HE SHOULD BE THE ‘LETS DO IT BECAUSE SHE LOVE IT’ TYPE
Only a few men will change a
channel or do what he normally don’t like because his woman. Men are very
particular about certain things, especially movies and TV shows. Most men don’t
like some romantic TV channels which their women love and would never change
from the sport he loves to watch her change. But there is a strong possibility he might
bend if they really love that woman. Most women will think if he loves me, he
will do anything for me. Now, if you can show her that love with a thing as
small as a TV channel, how do you want her to believe your confession of love?
HE SHOULD BE ‘AM NOT AFRAID TO SHOW MY EMOTIONS’ TYPE
We were trained not to show our
emotions; how dare you want us to change over night, such is the attitude of
most men. He might feel like crying but if we do, how are we now going to prove
to her that we are more superior? But do you know how they think? Showing your
emotions will make them feel and know that they are not marrying a stone or
better put a heartless fellow.
It is true that for the most
part, men are not emotional creatures so crying is the ultimate form of opening
up. Now, it’s not like guys are running around shedding tears at every
opportunity but in the rare instances where one does it should be noted. Crying
is a major display of vulnerability and if a man breaks down in front of a
woman because of a death in the family or a similarly tragic experience it
displays a considerable amount of trust in her.
HE SHOULD BE THE ‘I LOVE YOU AND I MEAN IT’ TYPE
It is true the true test of a
man’s feelings comes from his actions. But saying it is important to most
women. Anyone can say “I love you,” but actually meaning it is a whole other
ball game. You will not just say it and get away with it. Your eyes can’t lie
unless you are a 15years experience CIA agent. Most women can tell when a guy
is not sincere with her love confession.
Man in love with a woman will not
only say it but he will show it. He’ll call you when he misses you. He’ll
listen to you when you’re talking. He’ll make sacrifices to make you happy.
He’ll be emotionally available and willing to express himself with you. He’ll
mean what he says and do whatever it takes to make you feel like the most
important woman in the world. This is how most women think.
