There are some red flags that show you whether a guy is into you or not quite. But if you are looking for some easy ways to tell if he's after you and not just looking for a good time, here are a few things you should consider.
He gives a lot of eye contact
If I'm interested in a girl, I'm looking into her eyes. You are my focus, I want to know as much about you as I can. I respect you as a human being first, so I will zen my concentration enough to wait until you get up to go to the bathroom to check out your cuerpaso (hey, just being honest). Letting the eyes talk is a wonderful ice breaker in itself.
He always has a big, cheesy smile
I find myself smiling a lot and asking questions. I want to hear what you have to say and learn what you like. It's hard to keep someone's attention nowadays, but if I'm into you, trust me, no Adderall is needed. Just your pretty face and whatever you have to tell me in that moment's time is fine with me.
He'd rather call you than send a text
If he's calling to ask you out instead of texting, it's a really good sign. If I am interested in a girl and I want to take them out, I will call. It's simple, fast, and direct. Excitement, nervousness, sarcasm, so many wonderful aspects of communication are lost when we don't talk. I want to ask you out on a date, hear you say yes and feel your excitement. If I sound nervous on the phone, whatever, a mi que me importa! I look forward to embarrassing myself a whole bunch in your presence. But don't get mad if he doesn't want to talk to you on the phone for hours, that's not something most guys like to do.
He has promptness on the text game
The quick hit back on the text is a strong sign. He's excited to see a message from you, and wants to keep the conversation going. If a guy doesn't text you back as fast, he probably is checking his messages and thinking about when is the best time to message you back, a sign that he most likely doesn't feel like talking to you at the moment, for whatever reason. Not a good thing!
He's all ears
El tipo is remembering things you told him, recalling scenarios like, "Oye mima, I was at a Colombian restaurant and was going to order tostones but remembered your study abroad story and you mentioning that they are called patacones in Colombia. Que bacano estuvo el sitio." Little bits of information that you may think are insignificant are such good indicators that he is thinking about you when you aren't around him.
He introduces you to his friends
My friends are an extension of myself. If I dig you, I want you to meet them and let friendship spread.
