Fill a hall with all kinds of pretty women, one or two must
stand out. Why, because they are more beautiful? You might be right, but how do
you define beauty in such condition. For you to be able to pick out one lady in
the mix of twenty beautiful ladies, that lady must have something that others doesn’t.
Am not talking about like, am talking about attraction. You maybe attracted to
her and then decide she is not your type. But the point is, you were attracted.
You couldn’t help but stare at first. That is the attraction am talking about.
It is always a moment naked attraction and it happens to both sexes.
What is that compelling force that makes heads to turn? New
York Fashion homes found out something about this and they went crazy with it.
Now you see most young women go nude on every street because they want to
attract someone. It doesn’t work that way. Real attraction is beyond fashion.
Right from the moment you were formed in the womb you have been reacting to
that attraction since. It is just that you couldn’t tag it as attraction. You
knew it to be a force which you most often ignored.
You have reacted to the unusual before you were born. Perhaps,
while in the womb when your mother behaves the way you weren’t used to you
react. You grew up with it; anything unusual makes your head to turn, at least
for a moment. That is the law am talking about, they law of the unusual. What
you cannot denial is what is new to you. It will definitely command your
attention, whether you ask for it or not. However, can this be the art of
beauty? Is this unusual strong enough to hold men spent bound in this our world
that every woman is beautiful? I don’t think so, many women are already doing
many strange things. What can you do different?
They call it poise, I call it the art of beauty. Yeah beauty
is an art. And for every art, there is a unique style. That style is your power
of attraction for the 21st century world of beauty. A woman pulled back her
hair and all heads turned. Another flashed a smile and many mouths giggled.
Your styles are those unique things that are peculiar to you. The way you carry
your legs; the way you pull a gentle slow smile; your taste in clothing; your
confidences in the walk, in the act, and in the talk etc.
Cut a unique deliberate style for yourself. Stay out of what
everybody is doing, stage a unique you. Create your style and exercise it until
it has become you. If beauty is an art then you must understand all arts are
intelligent creativity born out of imitation of life. However, you must
understand that there are certain styles you are not designed for so you can’t
imitate them, but you can upgrade them to fit your unique style. All works of
art involve exercise, don’t be scared to exercise or practice the style you
wish to conform to, and don’t forget to still be your unique self.
There is something about style that when you keep at it, you
will develop a niche that is you without any form of pretence. You must realise
here that there is a difference between play-acting and pretence. Play-acting
is taking another role purposefully because you want to fit into that
character. Whereas, pretence is assuming a false position; one is an art, the
other is an act. Arts are learned, acts are copied. I am not asking you to
copy, am asking you to learn. Adopt your favourite style from others, learn and
exercise it until it becomes you.