What is poise anyway? First, it is called composure, which
means calm self-assured dignity, especially in dealing with social situations.
Second, it is called controlled grace in movement, which is a graceful
controlled way of standing, moving, or performing an action. In other words,
poise is when you are in control of your standing, composure or body moments.
Whenever we look at a woman what is the first thing that
stares at us? That is for everybody both male and female. When a man sees a
woman and he is attracted, what necessarily attracted that man? Is it the
height, the size, the shape, the colour, the hair, the smile or the face? What
actually drew his attention? Many women will think they know the answer and no
man can boost of an accurate answer.
What is the attraction factor that compares a man to go after
a woman? After several studies and researches on the law of attraction many
scholars still find it very difficult to trace the attraction factor between a
man and a woman. Some claim it is a mystery, others think it has to do with
individuals. The later is the concept that has hindered many from discovering
the truth for a long time.
Do you know why many think it has to do with individuals’
different attractions? They believe there is no attraction common to all men.
Yet, they dare believe almost all men enjoy sex. They noted that all men can be
seduced. However, we are dealing with before seduction. What attracts the man’s
attention at first? What makes the man’s head to turn towards her? Accidentally,
he looked and saw, what kept his gaze? Why didn’t he look away? This is not the
art of seduction but the art of attraction.
All men were born with certain things in common. Certain factors
occurred in every child. Irrespective of where he was born, how he was born and
what colour, race or sex. Every child has common influencing factors. There
might be other variations yet, the common ones do exist. Every child cried,
every child enjoy taking in oxygen and releasing carbon dioxe, every child was
cuddle with or without love. There are several common childhood experiences
that bore down deep into the attraction of all men. In those experiences lies
the law of common attraction.