"There's a saying, 'Too much hand dey spoil pikin,' and no truer words echo across Nigerian homes. Let me tell you about Obi and Chioma, two kids growing up in the heart of Lagos.
Obi was raised like a prince, showered with gifts and never denied anything. His parents believed showing love meant indulging his every whim. Chioma, on the other hand, had a different upbringing. Her parents hugged her tight, but they also steered her, teaching her the value of hard work and discipline.
As they grew, Obi found himself lost in a world where everything came easy. His parents' constant 'yes' became his shield, but little did they know, it was a double-edged sword. Chioma, with her loving yet firm upbringing, understood the world wasn't all roses. She worked hard, made mistakes, but learned and grew from them.
When life's challenges knocked, Obi stumbled. He hadn't learned resilience or perseverance. Chioma faced obstacles too, but she stood firm, drawing from the lessons her parents had instilled.
Obi's parents meant well, but their pampering became a barrier. Chioma's parents, by guiding her with love and setting boundaries, equipped her to face the world head-on.
Love isn't just giving in to every demand; it's about teaching values, instilling discipline, and allowing room for growth. Obi learned the hard way—sometimes, too much pampering can leave you unprepared for life's hurdles.
Chioma, guided by love with direction, flourished. Her parents were there, not just to spoil her, but to shape her into a resilient, responsible individual. In the end, it wasn't about denying love; it was about channeling it in a way that nurtured, guided, and empowered their children.
So, remember, 'No be spoil we dey spoil pikin; na love we dey show.' Love with direction—now, that's the key to raising strong, capable individuals ready to take on the world."
